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Adolescence is a time of discovery, exploration and first love. The pain and issues surrounding unrequited love can be talked about between friends endlessly if the love happens to be heterosexual in nature. But how easy it it for the teenager to talk about a crush if the crush is on someone of the same sex? How easy is it for a teenager to even admit it to himself or herself? The stories below are not just stories of sexual identity. They are stories of family and friendship and acceptance. One does not need to be questioning their sexual identity to get something from reading these books. They are written by or about teenagers dealing with homosexuality, bisexuality, and transgender issues either in themselves or with someone they love, such as a friend, sister or parent.

A person does not wake up one morning and decide to be gay any more than a person wakes up and decides to be straight. One cannot force attraction. It just is.

Bechard, Margaret  If It Doesn't Kill You
I borrowed this book from the public library after reading Hanging on to Max. While not as good as Hanging on to Max, the book dealt with how a child copes when the parent comes out. I thought the book, From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun by Jacqueline Woodson did a better job.

Ben is a freshman football player and has just completed a losing season. He has promise as a player, though, and the varsity team "adopts" him. While he is flattered, he is terrified that they will discover his secret - that his legendary father who also played football at Ben's high school is gay. Ben is angry and confused. At the same time, he is dealing with learning to drive and a fascinating but exasperating new neighbor named Chynna.

Chambers, Aiden  Postcards from No Man's Land
Postcards is so intriguing, so well-written and so-not-for-grammar school students due to two short fairly frank scenes and several allusions. However, it did win the Printz Award (2002) as well as the Carnegie Medal in Great Britain (2000), where it was first published.

It tells two stories in alternating chapters; Jake is a seventeen-year-old British student who is traveling to Amsterdam to attend a ceremony honoring the soldiers who died at Arnhem during WWII. His grandmother lost her husband, also named Jake in the battle, but has broken her hip and is unable to travel. The other story is the memoir of Geertui, who was nineteen at the time of the battle and cared for Jake's grandfather when he was wounded. Shortly after arriving in Amsterdam, Jake receives a cryptic message stating that all is not as it seems and indeed it is not. Events which unfold over the next week turn Jake's world upside down.
  
 Ferris, Jean Eight Seconds
Eighteen-year-old John just completed his junior year of high school. He "missed" a year when he had heart surgery and should really be graduating. He's wondering whether his heart surgery has caused him to miss other things because he feels out of place and different. He has a lovely girlfriend pressuring him for a commitment he cannot give, so he wonders if he should break up with her. He and his father are the only males in a ranch dominated by three sisters and a mother. When his father scrapes up the money to send him to rodeo camp for six days, John leaps at the opportunity to get away from it all and immerse himself in the dangerous and grueling sport of bull riding. He meets Kit, an older boy, and forms an immediate friendship. Upon returning home, he discovers that Kit is gay and John has to explore his feelings and whether or not he can or should pursue the friendship. Recommended grade 8 and up. 
 Freymann-Weyr, Garret My Heartbeat
Ellen and Link are brother and sister. James is Link's best friend. The two are inseparable and they are the only friends Ellen needs. She adores her big brother and is totally in love with James, but makes it a point never to take sides. The intensity and exclusive nature of James' and Link's friendship does not strike Ellen as odd until shortly after starting her freshman year, a new acquaintance asks Ellen if James and Link are a couple. As Ellen begins to ask questions, she sets in motion events which change the friendship, her family's dynamics and her own relationship with James. An intensely interesting read with no real easy answers.
 Hartinger, Brent 

The Geography Club
Russel was convinced that he was the only gay student at his high school until his meeting with an online chat buddy. His buddy is none other than the popular star of the baseball team. Their quest to find others like themselves and yet not attract attention leads the boys to devise a club that would seem so boring and advised by an appropriately disinterested teacher, that no one would join. And thus The Geography Club was born where gay, lesbian and bisexual teenagers could meet and find support. All was well until a heterosexual girl with an interest in geography joined. This novel explores the themes of loneliness, friendship and belonging with sensitivity, humor and sadness.

Brent Hartinger's website is truly original and informative. On the home page, we are treated to a side view of "Brent's Brain." It is divided into nine sections and serves as links to various pages inside Brent's Brain on such topics like "My deep, dark past" and "Being Gay." The mouse click produces a sickly squashing sound and the pages are personal and humorous as well as informative. 

 Hartinger, Brent 

The Order of the Poison Oak
Russel Middlebrook is back in this satisfying sequel to The Geography Club. It is summer and he is heading to Camp Serenity with his pals Gunnar and Min. They are going to be camp counselors to groups of campers who will come for five two-week sessions. The first session of camp is reserved for campers who have suffered from disfiguring burns.

Russel wants to get away from his life as token gay at his high school, Gunnar has sworn off girls and Min just wants to have fun. Russel has never worked with children before and is a little worried about how to treat his first group of campers. With the help of a fellow counselor who is also a burn survivor, he learns to treat his campers as individuals. He befriends Em, whom he realizes would be perfect for Gunnar, but Gunnar isn't interested and as luck would have it, both he and Min crush on the same "hottie," a fellow counselor named Web. Russel also has a knack for forming clubs and comes up with "The Order of the Poison Oak" to bond with his campers.

This novel was enjoyable and often laugh-out-loud funny as Russel is real and likable. Occasionally, the "messages" get a little heavy-handed, but they are good "messages" that bear remembering. 

 Koertge, Ron

Boy Girl Boy
Larry, Teresa and Elliot, boy girl boy, have been best friends forever with no room for anyone else except Elliot's many girlfriends. They have outgrown their small Illinois town and plan on heading out to California together as soon as they graduate high school. The story is told in shifting points of view and we learn about Teresa's abandonment issues and secret crush on the fantastically gorgeous Elliot. Elliot's ultra-religious parents do not approve of his friendship with Larry who is out but still coming to terms with his homosexuality.

While Larry does have to deal with blatant and disguised homophobia and ends up in a hospital, this novel is not issue driven, but more like a slice of life story about best friends and how to outgrow them. 

 LaRochelle, David Absolutely, Positively Not...Gay
Sixteen-year-old Steven narrates this angst-filled, lighthearted, often laugh-out-loud funny story. So what if he is sixteen and never had a girlfriend, likes to keep his room neat, dislikes sports but likes square dancing? He assures the reader that he is absolutely, positively not gay. He can't talk to anyone about it so he goes to the library and checks out a book. Unfortunately, the author of the book views homosexuality as a deviant behavior and suggests some aversion therapy, which Steven tries with varying degrees of hilarious failure.
Lecesne, James Absolute Brightness
Fifteen-year-old Phoebe Hertle narrates this stunning debut novel about the life, disappearance and death of fourteen-year-old Leonard Pelkey, orphan son of Phoebe's uncle's girlfriend. When Phoebe's uncle can no longer care for Leonard; he asks his sister, Phoebe's mother to take him into her Neptune, NJ home. Phoebe is definitely not in the mood for Leonard with his midriff-baring top, madras plaid capris and six-inch platform sneakers. She thinks her single-mother has enough on her plate dealing with the beauty salon she runs, her divorce from Phoebe's dad who ran off with one of the salon's employees and with Phoebe's sister's depression.

Phoebe just wants to hang with her best bud, Electra, work for her mom occasionally, shoplift occasionally for kicks and get through high school under the radar as the homely sister of a beauty queen. Then Leonard starts befriending all of her mother's clients and becomes her mother's go-to man. When he begins suggesting make-over tips and even her sister, Diedre goes for his suggestions, Phoebe just wants to kill him. But she never wanted him to end up dead.

 Levithan, David   Boy Meets Boy
In this lovely book, Paul tells us about himself. He is gay and lives with his supportive parents in a caring community and attends a high school which is accepting of differences. So accepting, in fact that the homecoming queen also happens to be the cross-dressing captain of the football team. He is also in love with Noah, a new boy at school. Complications begin to arise when Paul's old boyfriend tries to rekindle their romance. The book is a fantasy of course. I wish people could be more accepting of differences. Reality for most gay teens in high school can be quite harsh. 
 Levithan, David   The Realm of Possibility
Twenty high school students ponder life and the nature of love in all of its forms in Levithan's second book. Anchoring the book are two poems told from the points of view of Daniel and Jed, a couple about to celebrate their first anniversary, but the rest of the poems come in all shapes and sizes from a girl struggling with an eating disorder to a boy who competes with Holden Caulfield for his girlfriend's affection. Many of these poems require several readings to get, some sit easily, others ruffle feathers. 
 Matthews, Andrew  The Flip Side
Matthew, a fifteen-year-old British student tells a charming story of discovery. He has a best mate named Kev and a wild crush on Milena. Kev has been acting a little strange lately and Milena doesn't even know Matthew exists, so he thinks. Matthew's dad works from home for his mother who heads a software company and does all the traveling. He has a lot to think about but gets more confused when he is assigned the role of Rosamund to Milena's Orlando in the gender-bender Shakespeare play, "As You Like It." He discovers that he likes dressing up in girls clothes and with Milena's support explores it some more. What does it all mean? He definitely likes girls, but he also likes this "flip side" of himself. There is nothing graphic in this book but it is a frank look at gender stereotypes and sex roles. 
 Myracle, Lauren  Kissing Kate
This is Myracle's first novel (see ttyl above). Lissa and Kate have been best friends for four years now, sharing secrets and finishing each others sentences, but when Kate gets drunk and kisses Lissa and Lissa returns the kiss, everything changes. Kate throws herself at a boy, freezes Lissa out and Lissa feels abandoned and confused. It doesn't help matters when Lissa's new co-worker, a free spirit named either Ariel or Kimberly decides to be Lissa's new best friend and won't take "no" for an answer. 
 Peters, Julie Ann  Luna, a novel
This book received good reviews but most of the reviewers recommend this book for grade 9 and up. It is an amazing book about a difficult subject: transgender teens. Fifteen-year-old Regan has always been her seventeen-year-old brother's confidante. Liam is a girl born into a boy's body and each night he transforms into Luna. Regan loves her brother and recognizes that he is truly happy when 'she' is Luna but Regan wants her own friends and her own life and for her family to be "normal." This is an amazing story for mature young adult readers. 
Sanchez, Alex The God Box
Sanchez's books just keep getting better and better. In this book he explores how young, gay Christians reconcile their sexuality, their belief in God and the interpretation of Scripture which damn homosexuals.

Seventeen-year-old Paul dates Angie, his best friend forever. They truly love each other, but Paul has dreams that disturb him and he wonders why he is not terribly attracted to Angie even though he loves her. These doubts and fears are multiplied when Manuel moves to his town and announces that he is gay on his first day of school.

Sanchez, Alex Getting It
I always enjoy Sanchez's books. He has a frank but upbeat and breezy style of writing that makes me feel like I am sitting with an old friend and chatting. His "Rainbow" series is wonderful, but its content puts them at the high school level. His book, So Hard to Say, is one of my favorite books.

Getting It is an attention-getting title and "it" is pretty much what is preoccupying the thoughts of fifteen-year-old Carlos. Apparently, he is the only virgin among his quartet of close friends. He has a crush on Roxy, the school hottie, and he knows that he isn't even on her radar. He notices and envies the ease that Sal, the school's only openly gay student, talks to girls with. After he watches a makeover on the television show, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, Carlos wonders if Sal would make him over. He stalks Sal for awhile trying to get the courage up to ask for the makeover. Sal agrees but he wants $6 and hour plus expenses and Carlos' help starting a Gay-Straight Alliance at school.

What follows is an engaging story of friendship and self-discovery as Carlos grows to admire and accept Sal but lacks the courage to follow through on his promise. Carlos develops a growing awareness of the homophobic language used by many students at his high school and even from his own group, Les Hornitos. There are some frank depictions of "hook-ups" and the fantasies of some teenagers which some might find offensive, but I found fairly realistic. I don't think this book will make it to the school library shelf, but I will most certainly recommend it to my high school friends and the most mature and discerning eighth grade readers.

 Walker, Kate  Peter
This novel was first published in Australia and is a first person narrative spoken by the Peter of the title. He is fifteen, an honor roll student and avid photographer and dirt-biker who lives with his single mom and college-age brother. He endures the macho, homophobic pecking order of the dirt bike gang because he loves to bike but chooses not to dump on the boy the others have dubbed "Alice." One day, when reminding the gang about the rules regarding their dirt-biking, Peter is dubbed a "poof" and attempts a foolhardy trick on his bike to prove his masculinity. His best friend sets him up with a "hot" chick who's advances repulse him and his brother brings home a friend with whom Peter immediately bonds. When Peter finds out that David is gay, he begins to question his own sexuality.
 Wittlinger, Ellen  Hard Love
John is a high school junior who is quite cynical about life and does not allow himself to feel anything. Since his parent's divorce, his mother goes out of her way to avoid touching him, his father picks him up each weekend, but they eat out in silence and then John is left to entertain himself. He has no real friends and no girlfriend. After reading a Zine called Escape Velocity and admiring the writing, John publishes his own and conspires to meet the writer of Escape Velocity. Click on the author's name for one of her other title's, Zig Zag. 
Wittlinger, Ellen  Heart on My Sleeve
Told completely in email, IM's, snail mail and postcards, this clever novel works better than the cute but strained, ttyl. It tells the story of Chloe and how complicated her love life gets when she meets Julian at a weekend get-together for prospective freshmen at the college she wishes to attend. She has been dating her best friend forever and loves him, but isn't in love with him. Her best female friend has been dating her boyfriend for four years and assumes they will all get married and have babies and live in the same town together even though the four of them are going to four different colleges. Chloe begins a long-distance email relationship with Justin, plans her summer of camp counseling and asks her big sister for advice. Her big sister has news of her own. The novel is often laugh-out-loud funny and quite satisfying.
 Woodson, Jacqueline 

From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun
Melanin Sun writes in notebooks, not diaries because diaries are a girl thing. He'll be fourteen in a month and a half. School's out for the summer. He's looking forward to hanging with his "homies," maybe calling Angie who gave him her number the last day of school and spending some time with E.C. his cool, single mother.

Everything is fine until E.C. tells him that she wants him to meet someone special. Mel assumes she has met a man and doesn't know what to make of this white woman who comes for dinner. He assumes the she is just a lawyer friend of her mother's until several weeks later, E.C. reveals that they are lovers. Amid the anger, confusion and anguish, Mel feels overwhelmed by the thought that the whole neighborhood will find out and he doesn't know what to do. 

 

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