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Families are a powerful force in any human being's life. For teenagers, family may be a source of great embarrassment even in the most functional and loving family. Many of the books listed below are cross-annotated because they had other themes besides family. I tried to include books containing happy, healthy families as well as books portraying nightmarish ones.

Alexie, Sherman The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time Indian
Fourteen-year-old Arnold "Junior" Spirit, budding cartoonist and reservation punching bag is actually looking forward to high school until he realizes that the education he will receive at the reservation high school will be inferior to one off the reservation. So he makes the decision to attend school twenty-two miles away in an all white town in order to become better educated. Although his parents support his decision, they all face varying degrees of wrath from the reservation community. As the only Native American at his new high school, excepting the school mascot, Junior also girds himself to be on the receiving end of some hatred.

At turns hiliarious and heartbreaking, this narrative is full of surprises and Junior Spirit is a unique and remarkable character. The story contains some profanity and frank discussion of masturbation, which though completely expected, normal and within context, might offend some.

Brian, Kate Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan Boys
Megan Meade's Guide... is cute, fluffy and predictable but fun. Megan Meade is an army brat and used to moving all over the world in a moment's notice; but when her parents are reassigned to South Korea at the beginning of her junior year, Megan puts her foot down and states that she won't go. So she gets sent to Boston to live with her parents' best friends, Regina and John McGowan and their seven boys. As an only child, Megan isn't used to living in a large family, let alone one with all boys, and her memory of the one time she met them consists of popsicle goo and mean tricks. When she arrives, they are playing a game of ultimate frisbee and she feels as though she has died and gone to Abercrombie heaven.
 Chambers, Aiden  Postcards from No Man's Land
Postcards is so intriguing, so well-written and so-not-for-grammar school students due to two short fairly frank scenes and several allusions. However, it did win the Printz Award (2002) as well as the Carnegie Medal in Great Britain (2000), where it was first published.

It tells two stories in alternating chapters; Jake is a seventeen-year-old British student who is traveling to Amsterdam to attend a ceremony honoring the soldiers who died at Arnhem during WWII. His grandmother lost her husband, also named Jake in the battle, but has broken her hip and is unable to travel. The other story is the memoir of Geertui, who was nineteen at the time of the battle and cared for Jake's grandfather when he was wounded. Shortly after arriving in Amsterdam, Jake receives a cryptic message stating that all is not as it seems and indeed it is not. Events which unfold over the next week turn Jake's world upside down.
 
Charlten-Trujillo, e.E. [sic] Feels Like Home
The last thing seventeen-year-old Michelle, "Mickey" Owens expected was her long-lost brother to show up at her father's funeral. Danny lit out of town six years earlier after a tragedy involving a fire and Danny's best friend. The Owens family had its share of tragedy before the fire; Mr. Owens was an alcholic, his wife abandoned the family many years earlier, he was always hard on Danny but Danny and Mickey were a team. Danny included Mickey with his friends and introduced her to his favorite book, S. E. Hinton's, The Outsiders. So when he left and stayed away without a word, Mickey was devastated. She poured all her hurt into her studies and plans on leaving her small Texas town for college. She is furious with her brother for returning. While he is contrite and trying to make amends, she remains unforgiving.

There is a lot going on in this novel. While I initially liked the references to The Outsider, the connections became a little lame and distracting. There were quite a few interesting characters to keep track of, such as Mickey's best friend, Christina and her crush, Ricky. There are references to the tragedies and family problems each deals with, but no real development. There was still a lot to like about the novel, especially some of the dialogue and descriptions.

 Cohn, Rachel The Steps
Twelve-year-old Annabel narrates the complicated story of her much blended family. You see, her mother and father never married, had her and split amicably. Her father moved to Australia and met a woman with two children, married her and are expecting Annabel's half-sibling. Her mother is contemplating marriage. Annabel is sent to Australia to become acquainted with her father's family. Are you confused yet? This breezy, humorous novel is great fun.
  Cohn, Rachel

Pop Princess
I pre-ordered Pop Princess because I adored Gingerbread and The Steps. I was disappointed because Pop Princess didn't have the edginess of Gingerbread or the wackiness of The Steps. It was a fluffy, romantic fantasy missing many opportunities to get deep and interesting.

Wonder Blake knows tragedy. The sixteen-year-old has watched her family unravel since the death of her amazing sister two years earlier. Her sister, Lucky, a rising pop star, was killed by a drunk driver and her parents just haven't bounced back. Having left their respective jobs, the family moves to their beach house. Making the shift from summer person to year-rounder isn't easy on Wonder. She has gained weight and become the target of the alpha-female at school. Just as she thought her life couldn't get any worse, she is "discovered" by Lucky's old manager and groomed to become the next pop princess.

 Coman, Carolyn  bee + jacky
This small book received very good reviews but I just didn't get it. It is set in 1975 and Bee and Jacky are brother and sister whose father returned home shattered from un-named wounds received serving in Vietnam. The family spent three years living with grandparents while their father recovered from his wounds and during that time, Bee and Jacky, left to on their own for long periods of time, engaged in play which became sexual and is now the cause of tension and shame between them.
 Curtis, Christopher Paul Bucking the Sarge
Fourteen-year-old Luther T. Farrell, of Flint, Michigan, is an unusual eighth-grader in many respects. He is reasonably bright and wants to win the science fair for the third year in a row, he has a best buddy, "from cradle to grave, birth to earth, named Sparky and a resourceful, demanding mother whom everyone refers to as "the sarge." She runs a number of group homes and rental properties around Flint and is a loan shark as well. Her connections enable her to get a driver's licence for an initially thrilled Luther. In addition to school, Luther has a full-time job of running one of the group homes and keeping "his crew" in order. He also considers himself a philosopher, often quoting a philosopher "who's name escapes me at the moment." As he begins to truly examine his mother's operations, Luther must make a series of decisions which will affect the lives of all around him. 
 Ferris, Jean Of Sound Mind
What happens when a child becomes care giver to the parent? High school senior Theo is the only hearing member of his family and has to constantly interpret for his parents and younger sibling. He only wants to enjoy his senior year at high school and to consider going away to college but how can he under the constant pressure of the needs of his family? 
Friend, Natasha Lush
Thirteen-year-old Samantha Gwynn is not only trying to cope with middle school, her rapidly developing body which is bringing her a ton of unwanted attention and mourning the loss of her best guy friend; she is also keeping her father's alcoholism a secret and becoming angrier by the day as he spirals out of control and her ineffectual mother tries to "breathe through it." She takes refuge in her public library even though the librarian is not exactly warm and begins an anonymous correspondence via a book about whales with "AJK," whom she assumes is the high school girl she has been observing.

Just as in Friend's previous novel, Perfect, we find an engaging, sympathetic, imperfect but likeable protagonist, with imperfect but likeable parents and a realistic sounding ending. Friend did a wonderful job of portraying the watchfulness of the child of an alcoholic parent as well as the emotions which veer from hatred to protectfulness in the matter of seconds.

Friend, Natasha Bounce
Thirteen-year-old Evyn's world is turned upside down when she returns from camp and is informed that her father, Birdie, is marrying a woman he met two months earlier. Not only that, Evyn and her brother are moving from Maine to Boston where she will share a house with Eleni's six children and attend an all-girl's private school.
Going, K.L.  Fat Kid Rules the World
I really liked this book, it is heavy (bad pun), but funny and I recommend it for students in grade 8 and up. Troy is nearly 300 pounds, feels like everyone hates him and/ or is staring at him. The book grabs you on the first page as Troy is contemplating suicide by jumping in front of a subway. He is imagining the newspaper headlines, "Fat kid jumps in path of subway..." and decides he would be too embarrassed, even in death by the headlines reporting his suicide. Unbeknownst to him, Curt McRae, legend in Troy's high school but, a homeless punk rocker and pill popper has been watching him. Curt decides to "rescue" Troy, then begs a meal off of him. By the end of the meal, they have formed an unlikely friendship and a band in which Troy, now nicknamed, Big T will be the drummer. P.S. Troy does not play the drums.

While primarily a story of friendship and acceptance of oneself, Troy's father and brother set unreasonable expectations of Troy.
 Halpin, Brendan Donorboy
This is a quirky, off-beat, funny novel about what makes a family. Fourteen-year-old Rosalind is an orphan dealing with the death of her mom and mommy in a freak car accident. She finds herself in the care the man who is her biological father, thirty-five-year old Sean Cassidy, aka "Donorboy," as Rosalind dubs him. The story is constructed through a series of emails, instant messages, text messages, letters and Rosalind's grief journal entries.
Harmon, Michael Skate
Readers looking for a skateboarding novel won't find it here. While the main character, fifteen-year-old Ian and his ten-year-old brother Sammy, love to skate; it is a gritty story of brotherly love and survival. Ian's life isn't easy; his father skated out of the family before Sammy was born, his mother is a crack addict, Sammy is developmentally slow because his mother was an addict while pregnant with him, she is rarely home and when she is the boys sleep in a shed in the backyard to get away from the drugs and other bad things. It isn't being a high school student, but when a kid like Ian has all that on his mind, it isn't surprising that he has issues with authorities and anger management problems. Add to that an administration which emphasizes its sports program and elevates the athletes above the rest of the student body and a kid like Ian doesn't stand a chance. When he decks a coach who has been trying to humiliate him, Ian grabs Sammy and runs from Spokane to Walla Walla in search of their long lost father. He makes a ton of mistakes along the way and when he finally arrives in Walla Walla makes some surprising discoveries.

This is a gritty read, almost but not quite reaching the intensity of a Chris Crutcher novel. There is some strong language as well as realistically terrible situations. Ian was an engaging character and there were some surprises along the way which enabled me to look past a couple of contrivances and pat coincidences and still enjoy the ride.

Hartinger, Brent 

Grand and Humble
Grand and Humble tells the parallel stories of Harlen and Manny, both are seventeen-years-old but Harlen is the son of a prominent Senator and socially conscious mother and Manny is the son of a devoted single father. Harlen is a jock and Manny is a geek but both are suffering from disturbing visions. Manny has nightmares each night and Harlen has premonitions. While the plot asks the reader to swallow a lot, it's a terrific ride, peopled with interesting likable characters and a surprise ending.

Thanks to Lora for letting me borrow her copy.

Kantor, Melissa 

If I Have a Wicked Stepmother, Where's My Prince?
Another modern day Cinderella story, but clever, readable and fun. Lucy Norton is a sophomore in high school and upset because her father not only had to go and remarry, but had to move her clear across the country to live on Long Island with her wicked stepmother, who hasn't yet gotten around to buying furniture for Lucy's basement bedroom. She also has twin stepsisters whose sole ambition is to spend afternoons shopping the "Miracle Mile" with their mother.

Lucy's passion for art and basketball are her only comforts as the "in" crowd at school hasn't exactly welcomed her with open arms. However, a chance remark about a basketball game between her beloved Lakers and the NY Knicks is overheard by the reigning alpha male and star basketball player who might just become Lucy's prince.

Koja, Kathe Going Under
Hilly and Ivan are very close as brothers and sisters go. They are both extremely intelligent and spent their lives being homeschooled by caring but clueless parents. Ivan is dominant and controlling and Hilly just wishes to please. The story is sometimes difficult to follow as the chapters alternate between Hilly and Ivan's points-of-view and is a stream-of-consciousness which left me feeling as though I missed something. The myths of Persephone and Narcissis are referred to both by the characters themselves and their individual personalities.
Korman, Gordon

Born to Rock
Leo Caraway is a Young Republican, honor student, nice guy with decent parents and on his way to Harvard with a full scholarship. As a favor to his best friend, Melinda, who is as goth as Leo is Republican, he tutors her friend Owen in Algebra. During the big exam, he sees Owen freeze and whispers an encouraging word to him. The vice-principal catches him and accuses him of cheating. When Leo attempts to explain, the vice-principal offers to shift the blame onto Owen. Leo realizes that this man is out to get Owen because Owen happens to be gay and his "X factor" kicks in. Leo refuses to back down. He takes the fall for Owen and loses his scholarship.

Leo's "X factor" is Maggot blood- his biological father is none other than King Maggot, leader of Purge, the founder of punk rock and hero of Melinda. What follows is a wild ride spent as a roadie for Purge's comeback tour.

 Lawrence, Iain  The Lightkeeper's Daughter
The jacket of this book recommends the reader be age 14 or above not for anything explicit in the book even though the protagonist is a seventeen-year-old unwed mother. I liked this book, but I consider it too sophisticated and subtle to be a "young adult" novel. I do not believe that anyone below high school would be able to understand or appreciate the themes of family, loyalty, blame and betrayal in this book, which takes place on an isolated island off of the Washington coast. I am not even sure a high school student would appreciate it. 
Levithan, David 

Are We There Yet?
There can be any number of reasons why siblings don't like each other and Elijah and Danny Silver share several. First, they are separated by seven years and secondly, Elijah is as laid back as Danny is not. At twenty-three, Danny is the boy-wonder of his ad firm, but totally enmeshed in work, not realizing that he is becoming lonely. At seventeen, Elijah is facing college applications by avoiding them to spend time with his tight-knit group of friends at boarding school, getting high and enjoying just "being."

Mr. and Mrs. Silver send Danny and Elijah to Italy after Mr. Silver's knee injury prevents them from going. Danny senses a set up, but goes because his boss has suggested that he should take a break. Elijah is reluctant but acquiesces because that is his nature.

Levithan's writing is spare but humorous and oh-so-insightful as he captures the sibling tango and the perils and pitfalls of travel in Italy.

 Mackler, Carolyn  The Earth, My Butt and Other Big, Round Things
This quick read is often laugh-out-loud funny and tear-jerking at the same time. 15-year-old Virginia Shreves is convinced that she was switched at birth because she does not fit into her perfect family. Everyone is skinny;Virginia is not. Everyone is over-achieving, Virginia thinks she is not but she is a very good student. She is lonely because her best friend is spending the school year in Seattle. She has even begun hurting herself instead of dealing with her anger. Although the resolution is slightly pat, this book is definitely recommended.
 
 Mackler, Carolyn  Love and Other Four-Letter Words
This is Mackler's first novel but I read it after I read The Earth, My Butt and Other Big, Round Things. I read it because I liked The Earth... so much. Sammie is fifteen and has just found out that her parents are going to try a "trial separation" which means that her father is taking a sabbatical from his job at Cornell and going out west and her mother is moving with Sammie to an apartment in New York City and looking for a job. Her mother, aptly nicknamed "the onion" because she is so emotional, breaks down and takes to her bed, leaving Sammie to take care of herself, her mother, the apartment, the dog and everything else. Not quite as laugh-out-loud funny as The Earth... but Sammy is a likable character. 
  Mackler, Carolyn 

Vegan Virgin Valentine
Control freak and high school senior Mara Valentine tells us her story of straight A's, president of everything, early acceptance to Yale and in an intense race for valedictorian with her ex-boyfriend. Life is pretty good for Mara, she has it all figured out; at least the next five years. Enter Vivianne Vale Valentine, or V, for short, her niece, who is one year younger and everything Mara is not- promiscuous, pot-smoking, foul mouthed and indifferent about grades, school and authority.

This book is a quick, fun read but not for the fainthearted due mostly to the language and some of V's choices. She drives Mara absolutely nuts and needs the stability of a real family instead of her 35-year-old itinerant, single mother who refers to V's father as Sperm Donor. Both characters grow and change in realistic, if predictable ways 

McCormick, Patricia 

My Brother's Keeper 
Thirteen-year-old Toby Malone is the middle son of a single mom who is trying to cope with the fact that her alcoholic husband has left the family for good. Toby used to be tight with his older brother, Jake, who was the high school baseball team's MVP last season. But Jake has been acting mysteriously lately and Toby has been covering up for him as he did for his dad when he used to come drunk. At the same time, Toby is dealing with his first crush, trying out for the baseball team and his human sexuality class as well.

This lovely, heartbreaking book is told from Toby's point-of-view as he takes on the role of enabler and protector while, at the same time, furious with his brother as well as his mother because she is so wrapped up in her own problems, she doesn't see Jake's.

Na, An Wait for Me
Mina is a rising senior with secrets. Her parents own a laundromat and work very hard. Her mother has high expectations for Mina which include graduating at the top of her class and attending Harvard. Mina has hidden her falling grades with the help of the son of her mother's wealthy friend and now he wants pay back. She just wants to get through her senior year without her mother discovering her secrets so that she can move out on her own with the money she has been stealing from her parents' cash register.

To complicate matters even further, Mina has a hearing impaired sister whom their mother doesn't treat very well. Suna looks up to Mina, follows her everywhere and Mina feels very protective of her. When a Mexican worker is hired to assist Mina's father after he hurts his back, Mina feels drawn to him, which, of course enrages her already distrustful mother. Interesting, if predictable, not as powerful as her debut novel, A Step from Heaven.

Page, Jan Rewind
This cool little British import is narrated by sixteen-year-old Liam Condie, who is a bit dissatisfied with his life. He mostly cuts school to hang out with his skateboarding friends and avoids his house and his father as much as possible. One day, he decides to form a band with his mates although none of them plays an instrument. During his search for a used drum set, Liam meets "Weird Welly." who doesn't have a drum set for Liam, but has a connection with his folks and a lead on a used set.

Liam discovers that his parents were in a band which was about to go places when the drummer was killed. He then finds out that he was named for the drummer. He meets the drummer's mother while visiting his grave and finds out that she has kept a shrine to her dead son in her home, which includes his drum set and sticks. When Liam picks up his sticks, he finds that he can play the drums and feels the spirit of the original Liam.

This quick-paced rock story meets mystery meets time travel fantasy is a real page turner with a rather satisfying ending.

 Paulsen, Gary  The Glass Cafe or, The Stripper and the State: How My Mother Started a War with the System that Made Us Kind of Rich and a Little Bit Famous
Twelve-year-old Tony is an aspiring artist whose single-mother happens to be an exotic dancer. When his art teacher encourages the class to do figure drawings, Tony asks if he can draw the dancers at The Glass Cafe, while in the dressing room, not performing. When he turns in his sketches, his art teacher recommends him for a museum show. When a museum patron raises the question of Tony's youth and his subject matter, the state child protective agency begins checking. Events spiral out of control in this short, wacky, run-on sentence of a story.
 Plum-Ucci, Carol  The She 
I like Plum-Ucci's writing very much. I read The She practically in one sitting. Evan Barrett always had an intuition about things. But the thing that creeped his seafaring family out was that he could hear the scream of The She as she devoured ships at sea. When Evan was nine, The She took his parents while he and his brother listened on a ship-to-shore radio communication. Eight years later, he lives inland with his brother and has managed to bury the memory of his parents' last moments; or has he? When an cruel classmate slips him some LSD at a party, Evan begins to re-live the night of his parents death. There is some foul language and drug use in this book. The tension remains high but there is no violence. 
 Rosoff, Meg 

how i live now
Anorexic, angry and fifteen, Daisy is sent to England by her distant father and wicked, pregnant step-mother to live on a farm with her dead mother's sister and her brood of children. Daisy has never met them, but instantly bonds with Aunt Penn and her cousins. Aunt Penn does important work for world peace and regretfully has to leave soon after Daisy's arrival. Within several days, England is invaded and all communication is cut off. The children are on their own.

This is an interesting and disturbing novel on several levels. Daisy is an intense, complicated and sometimes offensive protagonist but she literally and figuratively, embarks on several journeys, grows and begins healing. 

Smith, Betty  A Tree Grows in Brooklyn
Originally published in 1943, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn tells the story of Francie Nolan and her family who lived in the Williamsburg section of Brooklyn in the early 1900's. Images of time and place are exquisitely painted as we learn the story of the Nolan family growing up in a tenement and scraping together pennies to get through another meal and enduring not only hunger and cold, but the brutal judgement of teachers, doctors and others who judge them. It's a story of family love and forgiveness, of sacrifice, hopes and dreams, the power of a love of reading and a desire for education.
 Sones, Sonya What My Mother Doesn't Know
Sophie's story is told in free verse. She is almost fifteen, in love and confused about a lot of things, parents, boys, her body and all sorts of things. The poems in this book are often laugh-out-loud funny. Some caused me to cringe in sympathy; other made me cry. Also recommended, Stop Pretending: What Happened When My Big Sister Went Crazy by the same author. 
  Sones, Sonya one of those hideous books where the mother dies (sic) Fifteen-year-old Ruby just buried her mother and is on a plane heading to live with a father she never knew because she left before she was born. Her father lives in Los Angeles because he is a big movie star and the only time Ruby has ever seen him was in the movies. Now, her mother is dead and he wants to be her father. This touching, often laugh-out-loud novel is written in blank verse and told by Ruby herself. She is likable, funny, trying so hard to cope with her losses and adjust to a completely alien life among the rich and famous. 
 Trueman, Terry Inside Out
Trueman won a Printz Honor with his first book, Stuck in Neutral, which is told in the first person and has an infuriating cliff-hanging ending. Inside Out is also told in the first person, but is interspersed with medical reports and ends with a news item. It is the story of Zach, a sixteen-year-old schizophrenic, who needs to take medication daily in order to stay in touch with reality and keep the voices in his head quiet. While in a coffee shop, waiting for his mother to bring his meds, Zach and the rest of the customers are taken hostage during a robbery and Zach goes hours without his medication. Engaging read until the end.
 
Wilkins, Rose 

So Super Starry
You would think that Octavia Clairbrook-Cleave would be an A-list darling in her exclusive private school, Darlington, in London. Her father is an award winning director and her mother is an award winning sit-com actress on American television. But standing nearly six feet and being brunette makes her the anti-Darling who is usually blond and petite.

Predictable but likable and often funny, this bit of froth is a fun way to fill an afternoon. This is the author's first novel, apparently written on a bet and a sequel is planned.

  Zusak, Markus Fighting Ruben Wolfe
This book was first published in Australia. Cameron and Ruben are two street smart brothers who live in a working class neighborhood in a city in Australia. Their father has recently become disabled due to a work-related accident and money is tight. Cameron and Ruben are offered positions as boxers and try to keep their new jobs secret from their family. 
 

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